Ericka Jefferson I can honestly say I feel the exact way she does. Before seeing your YouTube, I thought weave made me more beautiful but thats just the minor part. People may get bothered by your delivery, because your brutally honest and harsh with your words at times. But you speak nothing but the truth. Everything u may say doesnt apply to every black woman, but u watch enough videos, post, and radio and something u say will. I want to thank you as well for simply opening my eyes.

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Schan Willis Ericka Jeffersoncan you please help shed some honest light from a former weave wearers perspective? Are the brothas you know of attracted to women who wear weave? And since you think differently now. I wold honestly like to know, what goes through the mindset? For me it would be like, why would i sew the hair of another race of women to my scalp, when the world knows it’s not your own? Do women think that way at all? I would really like to know the mindset. Thanks

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Ericka Jefferson Schan Willis Well im a hair stylist so my mindset came from a perspective of making money, by wearing what is attractive to alot of potential clients. My mother is mixed, always had beautiful naturally thick long hair, therefore I was always able to grow long hair, wearing weave can be protective to wearing the natural hair and making it susceptible to breakage from flat ironing and other styling techniques, and also be used to add fullness to already long hair so on my end I will say people couldnt just tell that the hair wasnt mine. Alot of women wearing weave arent just blatantly obvious that they are wearing it, i know alot of people feel black women cant have long hair but alot do and can, depending on the texture of weave its not always obvious…But then there are that majority that wear it and u can spot it from across the room and it looks horrible LOL… It looks like youre trying to be something youre not. These people are delusional. Im not a complete weave hater, I think the problem lies when one feels unattractive without wearing weave, alot of black women will not leave the house unless their hair is adorned with weave, alot of black woman knowingly wear weave that it isnt done professionally and is damaging their natural hair and they dont even care because they feel oh I’ll just cover it up with a hair hat. I think as far as men their is a LARGE group that dont care either way, their is a smaller group that prefer and appreciate a sister who is confident embracing the strands God gave her, and then the other small group is made up of shallow dudes who are seriously attractive to the stereotypical brainwashed Americanized classification of what beauty is Weave flowing down a black womans back. I think alot of black women honestly wear it because they seem to turn black mens head wearing it. I think thats one subject thats not touched on!!! Cause im here to break the truth.., i do not turn as many heads as when I wore weave! I dont care but its just the truth!

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