How Does Your Love Life Stack Up Against The Adult Film Industry’s Standards & Others? (Video)
by Tj Sotomayor June 19, 2014 17 commentsHow Do You Stack Up?
By: Tommy “Tj” Sotomayor
On of the hardest things for me to deal with is performance issues. We think to ourselves, Am I big enough, long enough, hard enough or last long enough? We are constantly comparing ourselves against what we perceive other men have either done with the woman we are with or with other women. The thought of this alone can be maddening for a man!
Now add to that pressure adult films.
We have all seen one of these in our lifetimes at some point or another and while you rarely hear women discuss feeling inadequate after watching them, many men, including myself have watched a man on film perform and thought “I hope this chick dont think she getting that with me”! lol
Well, fear not because the video below is going to give you guys and girls some stats that I hope will ease your mind a little bit about how you are stacking up against the competition!
So there you have it, no I am not hungry but I am am a little man that my johnson was called a civilian johnson, but anywho.
Here is the real deal, I used to feel very bad that when I would watch adult films I would not stack up against the men in the video. Now here is the Gods honest truth about me so that others wont feel as bad. My length is about 8.5 inches, I guess thats a little longer than average but not like the dudes that women like to watch in these movies.
My thickness is my greatest attribute so I have been told by a lot of women but I have no idea because I don’t have others around it to compare it too. Because I am a known figure and I have also been with a lot of women, I must be as truthful as possible because well, they wouldnt have any issue busting me out about it just to make me look bad, please I keep photos for those looking to see for themselves..lol
Ok back to the subject. Where I have always felt bad about myself is in the distance category. I am a sprinter. I believe that love making is a sprint and not a marathon so riding me is like riding the free fall at Six Flags. Its fun getting on it and riding it but its over very fast. Then you usually have to wait in a long time just to ride it again. Im just sayin. So when I watched the movies with a chick I would always feel bad because I couldnt do anything like those guys were doing.
Most guys will not tell the truth to other guys about where they are lacking, so we never get a really good understand about where we stack up. Most women will also not tell you the truth about other guys shes been with or how you stack up because well, thats just tacky and could hurt the hell out of her mans feelings.
Now as far as the hair thing is concerned, I actually like to keep it bald but thats because I like to see all of my staff during company functions:) Seriously, I think hair keeps odor and other stuff so if I am not shaven it would be very low.
When it comes to 3somes, yeah I have been in a few of them but thats because I enjoy dating women who are bi but I have never been in a 3some with me, a girl and a dude. I did however get in a 4some with the girl I was with and a couple and I must say I wasnt as creeped out as I thought I would be after the incident. Now these things are not for everyone but I am a liberal to a certain extent.
As far as the dookie love, I am not into that and only did it with one chick I was with and that was on accident. Well on my behalf it was, she put it in there and I was like wtf. I always said that I would like to try it again but what most people dont understand is that I am very shy and really aggressive in the sack!
I have never in my life busted in a girls face although I wanted to try it, the shame of it all makes me not do it but one of these days I will be drunk and try it.
As far as swallowing, I have never been with a girl that I was dating and she didnt do it at least once. I dont like that spitting stuff because spitters are quitters. I dont do it often after the first time because I dont really like busting in a womans mouth because it just feels better inside of her.
I dont do like a gang of positions either like the guys in the movies. I actually like to either be on top or have her ride me, those are my favorite. Hitting it from the back runs a close third but thats according to how the woman is shaped. Wait a min, all of it is based on that because I dont like small chested women to ride me but if you got the D’s then you getting on top. If you got a big butt then you know i gotta get back there and test it but again speed is my speciality!
So ladies, next time you are with your man, remember, we have a lot of things on our minds when it comes to pleasing you so give us a helping hand. If you need more oral, dont be afraid to tell us, we are eager to please but dont judge us by what you see in these movies. Besides what they didnt tell you was that most of the time they do more than one take and I should know because I am not only a consumer but I was an actor:)
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17 Comments so far
Jump into a conversationwhy do I fuck ugly women better and longer than the good looking ones ?
Simple, they have to work harder, not skate by on just their looks. I like being pretty AND working hard. My hubby ain’t straying nowhere, its too much fun at home.
great read..i feel if we come to terms on our insecurities, and how we perform in bedroom the better we are..my sex life is amazing cause i don’t put unnecessary stress on myself…relax….get comfortable…do damage!!
That papaya though…
That cartoon face is hilarious, lol!
when you are in love…
…but if you’re really fine, I can stretch to a nine. Lol at least that’s what DJ Quick said on that Quick is the name album.
Changing positions is code for stopping the nut for me. Once I feel it coming I stop and make her change postion. After a few rounds of this I usually tell her to take the nut from me. They will either tell me not yet, come take it, or tell me where to nut.
It’s the one time I am fully engaged in conversation with a women
Funny, you cracked me up, lol!
I am a marathon RUnner I last a long time
1/2 hr of the actual deed is enough.
Mrs. Frannycat that man loves you dearly. I’m usually asleep by the 30 minute mark.
I should have clarifed that includes the 20 minutes of snoring along with the first exciting 10! XD
Lol!
is this question just for the guys I noticed none of your females listeners responded so I guess I’ll be the first I’ve watch porn and believe me I don’t think any females are comparing porn to reality in reality for me cause I can’t speak for other females the size thing doesn’t matter it’s the passion that’s makes it a hit or miss
Too big actually sucks, hurts, and is too much work. A decent “medium” is perfect!
My husband always tries to bend me these weird-ass ways, I’m like “Dude, my ankles haven’t seen the back of my head since, say, age 25, 26?”
Well… I am not going to be too frank because that’s none of anybody’s business. Now with that said, every woman I have been with swallows, prostitutes even swallow (in Europe); most spit. I am smaller than Tommy but have thickness and yes this is plenty for most women. Studies have shown that girth is more important than length as Franny said, too big is actually uncomfortable. But some woman get off on that uncomfortable feeling and they are known as size queens.
Have done anal but as the video stated very few women have experienced it and that’s because there is no forethought going into it, just pure experimentation. You can’t do that with anal, can be painful and damage things. It doesn’t have to be painful but like long dicks in the vagina it can be uncomfortable, yet tolerable and somewhat pleasurable. Finding women willing to try has proven difficult.
I also shave and women actually love it. I clean up the shaft as well, so there’s no hair in the mouth when performing fellatio. I like my women shaven, I know some men are put off by that, so it’s personal choice, but I also don’t enjoy hair in the month when going down, so if I shave, fair is fair.
The closest I have come to “group sex” is attending Swinger Parties. I wasn’t a participant just a interested viewer. To be honest, too many middle aging, saggy boobies and pop bellies for me and to top it all off, the woman that invited me was a BBW!
I do understand that some swingers are much younger and much more attractive; though I haven’t seen that personally.
I think the concern is actually in reverse Tommy. I think women become more concerned about body image watching porn, along with being pressured to perform the task and positions often seen in porn.
Most women don’t have perfectly shaped, firm breast, especially after having children or not using the correct bra the majority of their lives. Lots of big breast women get bras too big on purpose in order to downplay their ample bosom. As also stated in the video, women have different shapes, length and size of vagina’s usually built to accommodate the partners of the same genetic makeup.
That’s all I will say about that subject because it can get heated around here, but if other women saying Black men are “big” is largely because the men they are genetically matched for are smaller and thinner (Asian) or generally thinner (Caucasian) than Black men, so most women are never left disappointed, unless they were expecting Lexington Steel…
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