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Stephen A Smith Apologizes For Saying Women Dont Provoke Men But Tommy Sotomayor Says He Agrees, Here’s Why!! (Video)

Stephen A Smith Apologizes For Saying Women Dont Provoke Men But Tommy Sotomayor Says He Agrees, Here’s Why!! (Video)

by August 1, 2014 55 comments

Apologizing For Telling The Truth!

By: Tommy “Tj” Sotomayor

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Isnt it funny that when Solange beat on Jay Z in the elevator we found it funny????

In Americas latest version of emasculating a black man in front of live TV, ESPN had a 2 for one day as they showed the apology video from NFL Player Ray Rice about the night that he was seen on video dragging his girlfriend out of an elevator unconscious. There were no punches seen thrown but the world believes without a shadow of a doubt that this man beat her to sleep. (The Apology video can be seen below)

Ok so lets say thats true, why is it wrong to ask the questions of what led up to it?  I mean, when black men get killed by the police in the middle of the street people ask, what led up to it!  When Eric Garner was murdered on video tape, white people had no problem with asking the question “what led up to this”?

No one said, hey it doesnt matter what that person did, they dont deserve to be killed but when it comes to violence where women are involved with men, the rule to this day is still, no matter what you cant hit a woman.

Well ESPN’s Stephen A Smith was silly enough to actually tell the truth about how neither men or women should become provocateurs of anger from each other yet somehow saying these things had him on TV apologizing and begging for forgiveness!

Well here is what I have to say about this damn it!

Guys, this is stupid!  This man is being made to apologize for telling the truth!  Why are we just giving women no culpability in violence that happens in domestic situations?  Why do we find it funny when we find out how many man have been subject to the abuse?  Why is it that no one addresses that the most violent relationships are from women to women?

Chamika Holdclaw was arrested for not only beating her girls a$$ but she also shot out the window in her girlfriends car and she was right there ballin at the WNBA all star game.  There was not one person boycotting her playing or questiong no suspension nor was there anyone forcing her to apologize, why is that?

I mean hell she think shes a man yet she still avoids the man treatment, please tell me how that works!

Many females including Liza Manilli have been accused of assulting and beating men but its a big damn joke til the man hits back and all of a sudden its not funny anymore.. well I say f*ck that and men hit them just as much as they feel its ok to hit you!

They claim he shouldnt have used the word provoke then what would you call it if a weaker being approaches a stronger being in an aggressive manor?

I have no problem with Ray Rice poundcaking this woman because she stayed with him, she defended him and so she must have either felt that she caused some of what happened to her or shes OK with him doing it to her.  Eitherway, those people are grown and they live their lives how they want at that point.

We need to stop pretending that there are women who are more violent and more aggressive than men and there are many men who are in the graveyard today because they were told that under no circumstances should you hit a woman.  Well I CALL BS!

He, he got her pregnant that didnt force a wedding but he beat her down and they jumped the broom?  I say what happened in there was a catalyst to making a family closer..lol!

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ESPN has suspended “First Take” commentator Stephen A. Smith for one week for controversial remarks he made when discussing the suspension of Ravens running back Ray Rice after an alleged domestic violence incident.

When discussing the incident, Smith said that a man can be provoked into hitting a woman, and should take preventative measures.

He will return next Tuesday.

Rice, who was charged with aggravated assault after video emerged of him dragging his wife Janay Rice Palmer unconscious from an elevator, was hit with a two-game suspension last week by the NFL.

ESPN made this statement about Smith’s suspension:

“We will continue to have constructive dialogue on this important topic. Stephen’s comments last Friday do not reflect our company’s point of view. As his apology demonstrates, he recognizes his mistakes and has a deeper appreciation of our company values.”

See Smith’s apology above.

After issuing the apology, Smith had this to say on Twitter:

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  1. Daniel Lawson
    #1 Daniel Lawson 1 August, 2014, 19:33

    I was taught restraint from my father, but I have no problems protecting myself from a woman who is a threat to me physically as for mentally well I just leave the bitch.

  2. SGCentral
    #2 SGCentral 1 August, 2014, 19:35

    My thing is…the comments Mark Cuban made were stupid…we all know that, and Stephen A. Smith was the first in line to agree with what he said; he also said that black men…not boys, black men need to stop showing up to job interviews with saggin’ pants…as if that’s what black men are doing.

    But when it came to the issue of domestic violence and how some women push a man to that point with words and often with violence, all it took was Michelle Beadle to make a few tweets for him to make an apology about offending the black women in his family and the women who have been domestically abused…when anyone with common sense knows he wasn’t talking to them.

    So my issue with him is the fact that he was willing to apologize to black women and to other women he offended, but he “don’t care who in the black community disagrees with him” in regards to the comments he made aligning himself with Mark Cuban and his discriminatory views.

    So Stephen A. Smith can take his apology elsewhere in my opinion

    • SGCentral
      SGCentral 1 August, 2014, 19:42

      Yes I know he was forced to give this apology…but the fact remains that he had tough resolve to defend Mark Cuban, but not enough resolve for his own views. That’s just what I think.

      • Rene Trevino Jr.
        Rene Trevino Jr. 1 August, 2014, 20:25

        I respect you’re opinion, but what Mark Cuban said was true and what SAS was saying about that issue was correct also, but people don’t want to hear that, because that was “real talk” SAS is no different than Tommy, the only different’s is SAS works for DISNEY and TS doesn’t, SAS has to walk a fine line on what he says, and every morning before they do a show they have a production meeting on the topics that will be on the show, and can bet your ass ESPN is watching how far he can take a topic for ratings, until some group get’s “Offended” and then all hell breaks loose, and then the “Spin Doctors” are called in, now you may not like what he says and that’s fine, you have that right after all this is AMERICA, now back to the Domestic Violence issue, society will always be in favor of women, that’s just way it is, and in most cases it’s the man fault, I get that, but let me be clear on this, no man should hit a women for no reason or anyone else for that matter, but, if and I mean if…..if a women is going to act like a man?, then should be treated as a man!!!!!!!!!!! I love it when people say, well a man should walk away, do they the same thing when MAN HIT ANOTHER MAN??? NO!!! he hit’s back just like you should when a person lays their hands on another person

  3. J. Jermane
    #3 J. Jermane 1 August, 2014, 19:43

    “I say what I want to say, not what they want me to say.”
    -Tommy Sotomayor
    The hypocrisy of ESPN in handling this matter is absolutely ludicrous because they’re back again for not the first, but second time! Stephen A. used the same kind of terminology (including provoke) back in 2012 while “embracing debate” over the Chad Johnson and Evelyn Lozada altercation. No reprimand was handed down then. Funny how Michelle Beadle has YET to be disciplined after she violated company policy by tweeting her displeasure during and after the broadcast. But I guess most of America and ignorant, futile-thinking black folks, STILL aren’t ready to deal with the truth! Until then, keep settling for echoes because many aren’t ready for voices-especially if it’s a man with a black face. -Chuuch.

  4. Grace
    #4 Grace 1 August, 2014, 19:47

    Ray know he beat her that is why he accepted the punishment.

    • Johnny Doe
      Johnny Doe 10 August, 2014, 01:22

      True, he had some fault. As in he should have left her in the elevator after she instigated. It’s bad enough he married a bitch who thieved from a store when they were dating–yes, she has a criminal record already. You know, it’s not like he didn’t have a credit card with a high limit back then…

  5. Gerald Armstrong
    #5 Gerald Armstrong 1 August, 2014, 19:56

    I have a female friend that always says to me, “a real man just walks away if a woman hits him”! I respond to her, “and a REAL WOMAN keeps hee hands to herself”! If he’s trying to leave, let him leave!

    • Demair77
      Demair77 2 August, 2014, 17:29

      I feel that its my place to teach. If a woman hits me then most likely I’ll teach her the best policy is to keep your hands to yourself by hitting her back

  6. Sarai Heidelmeier
    #6 Sarai Heidelmeier 1 August, 2014, 20:49

    Agreed! I am a woman and if I were to hit a man (which I would never hit first OR instigate to get hit!) I would only expect him to return fire.
    Women in the US are out of control. All races. They seriously don’t know their place. I truly believe that. They do not know where they belong.

    • Deron Blaides
      Deron Blaides 2 August, 2014, 01:32

      You are right well said.

    • Bob Sheridan
      Bob Sheridan 2 August, 2014, 13:24

      Well you have common sense Sarai. When you talk about America that is hard to find.

    • graymonster
      graymonster 11 August, 2014, 20:12

      You know who makes it hard for men to be men in america? american men.

      The same who’ll say “she deserved to get hit” behind closed doors, will publicly behave in the typical “ladies first” american manner and perpetuate the prideful mentality that the egocentric and animal-wild american woman has.

      I generally do not respond to black american women when they “greet” me in public because I can hear the pride in their voices and see the look of arrogance on their faces. So I ignore them and walk past them. To the onlooker who witnesses my lack of response as well as the woman, I’m sure I’m viewed as rude and impolite but I don’t care because I know they are monsters behind their false display and words.

      Your view is correct.

  7. BbyHipHopangel
    #7 BbyHipHopangel 1 August, 2014, 21:09

    Women are real quick to say they are equal to a man and act like men. Yet many of these women when they attack and assault a man, who in return defends himself they use their “women status” as a way to play victim. These women that are attacking men and crying victim later are making it very hard for real victims of domestic violence to find help and justice. Women need to learn to act dignified, rational and in a sane state of mind. Stop putting your hands on other people, stop destroying other peoples property, act civilized and stop putting yourself in these situations where you are instigating situations and then crying for help because someone put you in your place.

    • Atheist
      Atheist 2 August, 2014, 16:51

      Exactly! They want ‘Equal Rights’, but ONLY in certain situations!

      Like Tommy said, let’s give ’em Equal Lefts, too!!! 😀

    • clint deleon
      clint deleon 7 August, 2014, 11:40

      what do u mean real victims of domietic violence, once the woman hits
      the man that constitutes as domestic violence too Yes? the man is the
      real victim, unless of course women are the only real victims of
      domestic violence ever.

  8. One Gentleman
    #8 One Gentleman 1 August, 2014, 22:20

    We have a group of individuals who control practically everything. I know what you are thinking…I am not referring to the J word. Who I am referring to are the PC Police. If you say anything that goes against their ideology, be prepared to lose your job, face suspension, and Twitter hashtag campaigns. Do women have the ability to provoke violence? Yes. Do men have the ability to provoke violence? Yes. Should we simply throw logic out the window, all because we fear hurting the feelings of the PC Police? I have witnessed women maliciously act like irrational and antagonizing children, all because they want someone, whether male or female, to react with a reciprocal act. They do this mainly with males, because we have a system that preaches, “A man should never put his hands on a woman,” versus “People should never place their hands on another individual.” You see, there is this thing called logic and in this arena known as logic, your feelings mean nothing. I prefer logic over this nonsensical emotional realm every day of the week.

  9. Inquizative
    #9 Inquizative 1 August, 2014, 23:09

    To watch Ray Rich grovel and apologize in every way he could possibly think of was simply pathetic. It seems he was apologizing to people he didn’t offend. He dug so deep in his apology bag he even said that his wife is never wrong. Simply “Simpifyingly” pathetic.

    Part 2. Stephen A Smith apologizing in a desperate attempt to change something that was the truth and then apologizing for it and essentially saying the same thing twice. Seemingly they just wanted to whimpify, bitchify and chumpify Mr. Smith. America!! please keep you hands to yourself, irregardless of gender,

  10. shehiplocki
    #10 shehiplocki 2 August, 2014, 00:08

    this is something kids learn in kindergarten, it’s elementary ‘keep your hands to your self’ cause i loose my mind if you touch me or my children!

  11. Jacobi Walker
    #11 Jacobi Walker 2 August, 2014, 00:59

    I’ve commented on this situation so many times, I’ll keep this brief. Keep your damn hands to yourself men and women and props to the people who understand how life and people work as far as provoking goes. Everyone like Beadle and other people giving their abuse stories, please sleep underwater for 30 seconds. Self-defense and abuse ARE NOT the same thing. *SMH*

  12. Gimmethemtoes Smith
    #12 Gimmethemtoes Smith 2 August, 2014, 01:09

    this shit happened to me, bitch wit an attitude for no reason, put her
    hands on me 10 times, i blocked most of them, then gave 1 right hook and
    bitch was down for the count, then called the cops like a bitch, i was
    not arrested, u know why, i did not act all defensive to the cops i
    played it cool (military vet), yes im black, yes the cops were white, she admitted to hitting me first so i was free to go no arrest,
    then days latter i guess someone convinced her to press charges any
    damn way, then the bitch turned it around saying i hit her first in the
    statement, months later had to go to court cause this bitch put assault
    charges on me, so i did the same to her, pressed charges on that bitch, of course since shes an seen as the delicate innocent black female, and im seen as the big bad black guy, my charges i placed on her were dropped by state attorney ,
    and the charges she had on me went to judge, so i said fuck this, got
    me a lawyer not a public defender and beat the case, got record expunged
    months later, FUCK THAT BITCH!!!!!

    • AaMikey Stephenson
      AaMikey Stephenson 2 August, 2014, 13:53

      That’s exactly what happened to me. She attacked me while I was holding our then 3 year old daughter. She ran at me for a second punch and ran right into my size 13 Polo’s, right in her vagina. Lifted her off the ground and into the stairs in her doorway.

      Of course, she lied about who initiated it. I was put in jail and had to get an attorney. The really bad thing is these women are demons. She was telling me I had messed up now because she was going to get custody of our kids back – she lost that years before – and child support.

      It goes deeper. I had two job offers at the same time after being under-employed for a year. I was stuggling at a job making 30K less than before I was laid off during the recession and the two job offers put me back to where I was before. Imagine my surprise when the offers were rescinded after they found the charge of assault on my record. A charge I had beaten and had never been convicted of. BUt just the fact that it was on my record meant I could not get the jobs. I had to go and get it expunged, which I did in less than 4 days and was able to get one of the jobs.

      Dumb broad. I have two children with her and two with my new wife. She was willing to have me put in jail to try to “win” no matter what. She did not care that it would negatively impact our children and my other children.

      These type of women are ruining lives of lesser men. I used to Obama black men all the time. Even when I was going through it with my Ex. But now, I see clearly that the consequences for dealing with these type of women are much more than a busted up car.

    • Johnny Doe
      Johnny Doe 10 August, 2014, 01:16

      So…let us know when you give your state AG’s next election opponent some ammo in his/her campaign. This, I would give blood to watch!

    • Derrick Bailey
      Derrick Bailey 13 August, 2014, 01:40

      Same shit happened to me… Daughters mother attacked me…I hip tossed her ass…The next thing you know i am in jail… Had to get a lawyer.. NO PUBLIC PRETENDERS…ERR i mean defender. Got that ankle bracelet off and won the case. Big time bullshit

    • diceman2003
      diceman2003 17 September, 2014, 10:58

      it seems like more soldiers that have been in real situations (vet here also) have the mentality of defending themselves against anyone man or woman

    • Inquizative
      Inquizative 20 September, 2014, 23:12

      Here’s my story; This bitch attacked me, I was able to pin the bitch to the wall. She literally was mad that I wouldn’t give her any sex….I’m dead serious. When she realized she couldn’t hurt me physically, she tried it legally. I’m very, very good in court…..I actually convince the judge into believing the truth. I got the restraining order. The judge actually gave me the restraining order with a threat as if I was the culprit.

      Of course she violates the restraining order…..the system doesn’t enforce it either. smh!!

  13. cj macc
    #13 cj macc 2 August, 2014, 01:54

    Although I agree with Steven on this point … the problem is you can’t just say whatever is on your mind on national T.V. where kids who don’t have a grown up sense of reason may be watching … that being said fuck apologizing if you felt that strongly about what you said defend it the damage is already done … I let a girl hit me in school once and it was my mom who told me not to let anyone put their damn hands on you boy, girl, big or small make sure your the last person they put their damn hands on … Although a lot of women my want to hate on his comment there’s a lot of women who feel the same way he does … we got bad girls club , love and hip hop and plenty of other shows , music and things in our culture these days that tell young girls it’s ok to act like a man the one thing that cures that disease is treating them like one

  14. Anthony Tinney
    #14 Anthony Tinney 2 August, 2014, 04:30

    THE BLACK MAN IS THE BLACK WOMEN`S PROPERTY TO ABUSE AS SHE SEE`S FIT!!!

  15. dadrunkuncle
    #15 dadrunkuncle 2 August, 2014, 04:42

    Video of the year.

  16. frannycat
    #16 frannycat 2 August, 2014, 04:50

    Damn Tommy, can’t disagree, I am a fiesty woman, but there’s certain lines you can’t cross. I can go on occaisional bitch fests, but I would never hit my husband or say things meant to humiliate or degrade. Guess what? I get treated the same respectful way back. (I start bitching, he just ignores me, lol)!

  17. Bob Sheridan
    #17 Bob Sheridan 2 August, 2014, 13:23

    I agree with Steven A. It’s just that America has become such a Matriarch society that everybody is outraged over any damn thing.

    If you have half a brain you know a guy that beats up a woman just to do it is a coward and spine less.
    People act like some women don’t provoke men to do this. They know the guy is going to jail so she can do what she wants such as spit, get all in their face, push, and hit. Now when a guy drop kicks her he is going to jail. WHICH IS BULLSHIT!!

    Bottom line some women deserve to get their ass kicked. I

    • AaMikey Stephenson
      AaMikey Stephenson 2 August, 2014, 23:30

      Right. And if you barely dig, you’ll get the females you know to admit they either do this or know many females who do it.

      I have two daughters and I teach them two things. Not to provoke a good man and they will be taking boxing lessons so they know how to kick the azz of a dude that get’s out of line.

      • Bob Sheridan
        Bob Sheridan 2 August, 2014, 23:43

        Looks like you are a great dad IMO.

        • AaMikey Stephenson
          AaMikey Stephenson 3 August, 2014, 08:12

          Thanks. But don’t get me wrong. The boxing is only for defensive situations. But the trainer also echoes the same lessons I do which is keep your hands to yourself, and don’t put yourself into any obvious situations where they will be forced to fight. Don’t want my girls just fighting in the streets. But mostly, we live away from hoodrats and thugs and I know they will encounter them one day and need to be ready.

          I think though that most dudes who know a woman is capable of defending themselves tend to either respect or avoid them. Not that it’s the perfect solution, but they will be better off than the girls who just do nothing to prepare.

          • Bob Sheridan
            Bob Sheridan 3 August, 2014, 09:55

            No. I understood perfectly. Both parties are supposed to keep their hands off each other. Getting in people’s face also is a no no. A woman has a right to defend herself.

            It’s just I can’t stand women that at all big and bad. Then want to play the damsel in distress when calling the police after she started the situation by doing said things.

            Living in a non ghetto area helps, but you are correct one might be lost and come to your nice area. ha ha.

  18. Tj Sotomayor
    #18 Tj Sotomayor Author 2 August, 2014, 13:59

    These were posted on youtube before i turned off the comment section!

    ASAP Robby19 minutes ago

    Grandma: boy what happen to u.
    Tommy: I got hot in the head with a stick, by a bitch!
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    Sheldon Prescott38 minutes ago

    They suspended him for that? Woooooooooooooow. People SAY they want the truth, and he gave it, and he was suspended? Proof that people LOVE being lied to.
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    sfcspectacular43 minutes ago

    PREACH TOMMY!!
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    Sheldon Prescott45 minutes ago

    My thing is this. I don’t condone hitting women, but at the same time, don’t push me to putting my hands on you. Bill Burr (comedian) has a joke about that. People always say don’t put your hands on a woman, but what if she’s drowning your kids? You can’t do anything still?
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    Ric ardo1 hour ago (edited)

    The “raised by women ” quote was to put in perspective the fact that he is “sympathetic to woman because of the women in his personal life. He “never “said “strong black woman” or suggested what you implied. p.s. You don’t have to be condescending to get your point across.
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    aries371 hour ago

    If you are Man enough to raise your fists, you better be Man enough to take a punch.. just sayin
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    derrick thomas1 hour ago

    how some of the women acting this day in time and some of these women putting on men’s draws and clothing with the pants hanging off there ass. needs a grown man’s reality beatdown!!!!
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    chuck08031 hour ago

    We all r animals men should b able to hit women if women can hit men point blank unless they pregnant 
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    Amy Roberts1 hour ago

    YES! Women right now are treated like children when it comes to this and I resent the hell out of it.
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    Fluffy York1 hour ago

    I can also gaurentee that if it is a man or woman that has messed with my child they better run duck hide long enough for me to calm down. 
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    Fluffy York1 hour ago

    Ok no man should hit a woman. No woman should hit a a man. The exception for me is if the adult person messed with my child. But some women enjoy winding up a man to get the beating for drama. Brother’s always remember pillow talk and if the guy is bad tempered head case and she is an insecure head case then never waste your precious time to go beat the man. ” He loves me” is the excuse most of the time.
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    thedarkestdawn12 hours ago

    I believe that some girls indeed cause violence against them I know two girls who have dated my brother and put their hands on my brother and thought it was okay! if you man enough to put your hands on a man then you man enough to get hands put on you! im a woman and I firmly believe in this! Equel rights for all!!
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    Jemiah Jackson2 hours ago

    you koon lol
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    Jemiah Jackson2 hours ago

    one love tommy
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    Eugene Thompson2 hours ago

    The white guy was nodding his head in agreement so why no backlash for him.
    As a man raised by women myself there is no honor in that fact.
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    Peter Linton2 hours ago

    I could’nt agree with you more!!

    Peter Linton2 hours ago

    I could’nt agree with you more!!

    Qaiser Qari2 hours ago

    Any reasonable and prudent adult male who allows a female to determine what being a man entails, is utterly confused. I have no understanding of that particular outlook on the laws of masculinity. The majority of women need womanhood training. So, adhering to their advice on how to become the broad-type, henpecked, yes dear, pansy, overly emotional, choir boy, church-going, turn the other cheek, treated like a child by your bitch, pussy whipped, on pussy punishment, tricking ass, boot licking ass chump that they are raising their sons to be….is some sucker shit!!!
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    Lndin Galle2 hours ago

    “I WILL CLOSE THE COMMENT SECTION ON YOUTUBE IN 10 MINUTES!” 16 hours later lol

    Mkai03 hours ago

    Too much truth for some to handle.
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    rankingtrevor3 hours ago

    I wus razed by scrong womenz.
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    marlando merrifield3 hours ago

    I don’t care, if any grown adult person attacks me, I will defend myself . I don’t care about gender. Stephen A. Smith went out like a S.I.M.P. for apologizing for the right comment. Women aren’t held to the same standards as men, but then they wanted to be treated equal, let them have the same consequences and suffer the same repercussions as a man would encounter. The world has to many S.I.M.P.S and just Thirsty deficient men not standing up for what’s right and wrong. Great video Tommy.
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    Tam E3 hours ago

    These comments got me ROFL hahaha cant stop laughing *)
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    bob taylor3 hours ago (edited)

    Women for the most part take no responsibility for their actions, especially when there’s a man on the receiving end of her BS. They “expect” there to be no repercussions or consequences when they become abusive (physically/verbally). And our society allows this nonsense.
    Women are not “EQUAL” to men, Period! But for those of you Feminists, women’s Libers, strong black women etc. who insist that you indeed ARE. Then let’s stop with this hyper hypocrisy & accept “EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY”. Because in the natural world, “for every action, there is an EQUAL & opposite reaction”. My point is LADIES, keep you fucking hands to yourself. Cuz we’re sick & tired of U’all being treated like the lil’ retarded kids that go around fucking with folks & getting the “TARD FREE PASS” !
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    OnePlusOneEquals34 hours ago

    PART OF WHAT STEVEN DESCRIBED IS CALLED SELF DEFENSE.

    BUT THAT RAISED BY ALL FEMALES SHIT IS EMBARRASSING THAT’S NOTHING TO BE PROUD OF.
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    LightHawk0001 hour ago

    exactly. it’s pathetic. 
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    Shred Foxx4 hours ago

    Bill Burr explains this very well 
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    christopher cawthon4 hours ago

    LMAO, you funny as hell Tommy.
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    michaelvilli094 hours ago

    lowkey, i been waiting to hear that other viewpoint. 
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    damian harrison5 hours ago

    RG3 does not have the same problem that Ray Rice has. Wonder why???
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    DjPetieMac7075 hours ago

    Real Talk
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    damian harrison5 hours ago

    Let the Ray Rice situation be a lesson to the ladies out there, never provoke your husband/meal ticket.
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    rickey b butler5 hours ago

    Donot sue because it will get you the OJ treatment.
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    Jack DaRapper5 hours ago

    Why Hope Solo got away with domestic violence?
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    joshuafoddrell166 hours ago

    I’ll never hit a woman, But Ill pimp slap a Hoe
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    James Johnson6 hours ago

    U right tommy. I feel u my brother !
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    BmoreBirds Nest6 hours ago

    Tommy it’s been 11 hours the comment section is still open…..
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    James Jackson7 hours ago

    IF YOU ASK ME 85% OF WHAT PEOPLE SAY IS FOR PUBLIC CONSUMPTION, WATERED DOWN IN ORDER TO NOT RECEIVE ANY CRITICISM, THE OTHER 15%? WELL THAT’S FOR PEOPLE WHO ONLY WANT TO CONSUME THE TRUTH, NOW MATTER HOW RAW IT IS! LOL
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    LightHawk0001 hour ago

    you’re. wrong. 95% is bullshit for public comsumption.
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    elchivo9187 hours ago

    this such an easy one, i ask you tommy and everyone else-why people are on the side of hypocrisy? 
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    James Jackson7 hours ago

    BEING POLITICALLY CORRECT IS JUST ANOTHER WAY OF GIVING YOUR BLESSINGS TO BULL-CHIT,…LOL
    WE LIVE IN A WORLD THAT PRIVATELY FOLKS WILL CONSIGN WHAT YOU ARE SAYING, BUT PUBLICLY RIDICULE YOU! CRAZY!
    IF PEOPLE ARE GOING TO CALL YOU NUTS, AT LEAST LEAVE HOLDING YOUR NUTS! LOL
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    genxchi7 hours ago

    If you love to debate and discuss issues related to the black community join the Group on Facebook called The Unity of our People. Come and offer solutions that can help UNITE our people.
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    Herp derp la derp8 hours ago

    Dont we tell kids when they are younger to “keep your hands to yourself”
    so by these peoples logic in having that guy apologize, every single teacher, kid, child or adult, who has ever read or spoke that line has to apologize for speaking on a subject that we constantly always teach are children?
    “treat others how you would want to be treated”
    another one where taught as kids that seems to fall on deaf ears the older people grow….

    seriously, they’re was a line spoken by a writer from the doctor who series who said

    “Keep the story complicated to keep the kids watching, But make it simple enough for the adults to understand it.”

    it comes to a certain point in are lives, we seem to just throw everything we where told as kids out the door and replace it with stupidity instead of wisdom….
    at least for a vast majority of these fucks who think its wrong for what that man said….
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    Devon Samuels8 hours ago

    Strait up nothing but the truth Preach Brother!
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    Christal Porter8 hours ago

    A woman hitting a man is as crazy as a pedestrian trying to cross in front oncoming traffic just because they feel they have the right-of-way. Unless it’s a Smart Car…
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    Dominico Carapella8 hours ago

    that shirt though lol i want it!!!!!!
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    Yannick Myk8 hours ago

    There is no truth in america
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    gringogallego8 hours ago (edited)

    Assault is assault, gender should not matter. Everyone has the right to defend themselves.
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    GUERRILLA SUNRISE9 hours ago

    STEVE A SIMP

    WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU NIGGA ??

    YOU CAN’T KEEP IT 100 ON MASSA NETWORK !!!

    GET A YOUTUBE CHANNEL AND GO HARD NEXT TIME MA NIGGA !!

    HAHAHAHAAAAAAAA
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    Nikki Matchett9 hours ago

    LMAO@ you can kick a kids ass
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    chesjack9 hours ago

    If Stephen A. Smith were to get on ESPN, on his first day back and recant his apology. Then quit on national television, after stating that he only told the truth, he would become a legend with a lot of following. HENCE…. his own damn show…..
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    pitbullinaskirt79 hours ago

    #truth .i agree with you Tommy! 
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    Jeffrey Montes10 hours ago

    The moment i heard stephen a smith on first take i knew he was going to receive some backlash for his comments.. Truth is he said nothing wrong ! real men respect women an a real women knows how to respect a man but with that said everyone has a breaking point . So many relationships have ended in tragedy being confused over the meaning of love.. Once you start to lose respect its time to go and thinking love is a reason to stay is foolish!! 
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    hitek9wittafulclip10 hours ago

    This is overhyped and overblown. Stephen A. Smith had every right to voice in opinion and nothing he said was wrong. That trick Ray Rice is with, probably deserved that beat down because more than likely, she provoked it. If it was that bad, she would’ve left him, but of course she’s not going anywhere, because of all the money and rich lifestyle. Everyone knows how violence, loud, rude, arrogant, mean, and manipulative black women are and they deserve this type of reaction. They claim to be so “strong” then when confronted, they turn into the weak little girls they are. A huge percent of the time, this is mostly their fault why these things happen, not the other way around. Stop trying to be a man, stop being aggressive, stop being rude and a prick, stop claiming to be so “strong” when you’re really weak, stop getting in people’s faces, stop challenging people, etc and you won’t have to worry about these reactions from these men. Point blank period!
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  19. Funkdoc
    #19 Funkdoc 2 August, 2014, 20:17

    If you haven’t already watched this Bill Burr sketch watch it. Hilarious but full of truths!

    “There is NO reason to hit a woman!”- Bill Burr

  20. AaMikey Stephenson
    #20 AaMikey Stephenson 2 August, 2014, 20:24

    My ex is one of the women who make it hard on good women and the men. She attacked me while I was holding our then 3 year old daughter. She ran at me for a second punch and ran right into my size 13 Polo’s, right in her vagina. Lifted her off the ground and into the stairs in her doorway.

    Of course, she lied about who initiated it. I was put in jail and had to get an attorney. The really bad thing is these women are demons. She was telling me I had messed up now because she was going to get custody of our kids back – she lost that years before – and child support.

    It goes deeper. I had two job offers at the same time after being under-employed for a year. I was stuggling at a job making 30K less than before I was laid off during the recession and the two job offers put me back to where I was before. Imagine my surprise when the offers were rescinded after they found the charge of assault on my record. A charge I had beaten and had never been convicted of. BUt just the fact that it was on my record meant I could not get the jobs. I had to go and get it expunged, which I did in less than 4 days and was able to get one of the jobs.

    Dumb broad. I have two children with her and two with my new wife. She was willing to have me put in jail to try to “win” no matter what. She did not care that it would negatively impact our children and my other children.

    These type of women are ruining lives of lesser men. I used to Obama black men all the time. Even when I was going through it with my Ex. But now, I see clearly that the consequences for dealing with these type of women are much more than a busted up car.

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    • Johnny Doe
      Johnny Doe 10 August, 2014, 01:20

      That sucks, but you atleast learned not to date shit women from now on, right?

  21. Ray Brann
    #21 Ray Brann 3 August, 2014, 02:24

    Everyone should keep their hands to themselves , but if attacked you should expect that person to defend themselves .

  22. coolyfett
    #22 coolyfett 3 August, 2014, 19:06

    This crap is really getting out of hand. No one should hit anyone.

  23. yuukisama2001 .
    #23 yuukisama2001 . 5 August, 2014, 12:33

    He’s right. We shouldn’t have to have this discussion again. Keep your hands to yourself! Remember when Whoopi did this same take on the View and the other girls were like. “No matter what happens you shouldn’t hit a woman, because a man is stronger”. Oh so the only time when a woman is weak is when she’s dealing with man hitting her for causing him trouble, but in the meantime they’re yelling about “they say that women are weaker, we’ll that’s not true because women can do things just as well”. This is the stupid nature of “feminism” in a nutshell. And i you don’t want to consider that, then it’s downright stupidity in a nutshell. Common sense. Keep your hands to yourself. The only time anyone should have to be in anyone’s face is to protect yourself or someone you care about. But you don’t dare give someone a reason to knock the crap out you first. Keep your hands to yourself.

  24. Madman77
    #24 Madman77 5 August, 2014, 20:51

    Spot on Tommy!!

  25. kporqueria
    #25 kporqueria 6 August, 2014, 14:34

    “To learn who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize.”
    ― Voltaire

  26. Rahsaan Woods
    #26 Rahsaan Woods 7 August, 2014, 00:48

    LMAO @ if women want equal rights they need to take equal lefts

  27. Tisha Woodley
    #27 Tisha Woodley 7 August, 2014, 08:34

    Keep your hands to yourself or suffer the consequence and that’s means both men and women.

  28. roncollie
    #28 roncollie 7 August, 2014, 21:53

    A human being should NEVER hit or provoke another human being regardless of gender!!!!

  29. Rebecca Carter
    #29 Rebecca Carter 16 August, 2014, 15:27

    I recently watched your video.
    It bothered me that you seem to think that it’s okay to physically attack someone if they insult you. You claimed that you would be derided for not attacking. I feel sorry that you’ve surrounded yourself with friends that would make fun of you for behaving like an adult. It doesn’t matter what anyone says to you; you don’t have the right to put your hands on anyone. It isn’t an issue of men or women, you are not allowed to assault anyone period end of discussion. There is a reason the world took offense what Stephen said was that short of attack with a deadly weapon or burglary there is nothing that anyone could have done to him to “provoke” him to beat someone until they are unconscious and drag them out of the building by their hair. You are only ever allowed to defend yourself from an attacking aggressor. You are not entitled to continue to attack them after they are subdued, that is cowardice and it’s shameful. You seem to lament that you are allowed to beat your children and not your romantic partner. I was under the impression that beating a child would get you arrested, and I sincerely hope you don’t beat your children until they are unconscious then drag them by the hair. Why are you so upset at not being able to physically attack someone? I’m not trying to antagonize you, but I just find it bizarre that anyone out side of their teens would hold that kind of point of view. I don’t know if you regularly address the comment section but I hope you respond.

  30. TK421
    #30 TK421 19 August, 2014, 15:25

    I used to believe that a man should never put his hands on a woman no matter what she did. That was 10 years ago. Now: FUCK THAT SHIT! Equality is equality. You wanna live in a man’s world and reap the rewards go right on ahead. Just don’t forget to be prepared to pay the same price as a man when you wanna hit us like a man. You wanna cry about abuse but don’t wanna take personal responsibility for your own stupidity. People are not as sympathetic to your plight as they used to be. You all got your equal rights, now you can accept what comes with it.

    No one should be putting their hands on their spouses/girl/boyfriends anyway. But if you do; don’t look surprised when you get a black eye or busted lip in response.

    Stephen A. Smith should never have apologized for what he said at all. He was dead on.

  31. Author T. Thomas
    #31 Author T. Thomas 21 September, 2014, 13:25

    Keep you hands to yourself. Men are victims of domestic violence too and, as a mother of sons, I would not want some female thinking she can hit my child then hide behind the law.

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