Local Black Female Beautician Agrees With Tommy Sotomayor’s Message Concerning Weave!

by Tj Sotomayor March 20, 2014 0 comments

What A Wonderful Endorsement!

After I posted a mailtime from a young woman who said that my words have not only pushed her to go natural but to get in shape as well, I went inside a group that is in facebook called Anti-Hairhat Nation where I had posted the mail message. To my surprise I saw a young woman comment on this post and not only comment but say some things that really made me smile.

A little back story on this woman is that she and I literally had an argument on my personal page some time back to where I cussed her out and blocked her from my page. I cant remember exactly what it was about but it revolved around my thoughts about hair and how I speak about black women so imagine how I felt when I saw the words she put underneath my post. What makes this mean so much more to me is because she is a darker toned woman, she not only wears weaves but fixes black hair but she is married! The one thing I told you guys is that most black women that listen to me usually were raised with fathers or a strong male figure in the home and/or are in solid relationships & marriages.

What the message below shows is that even when people disagree, a logical person can 1 move on and not stalk and argue for years but 2, they can actually admit when each other are telling the truth or have a point. See what she said that made my darkself blush!:)

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Facebook User Moriah Cenance Sends Tommy Sotomayor A Message Of Thanks & Support! – Sotomayor TV

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Ericka Jefferson I can honestly say I feel the exact way she does. Before seeing your YouTube, I thought weave made me more beautiful but thats just the minor part. People may get bothered by your delivery, because your brutally honest and harsh with your words at times. But you speak nothing but the truth. Everything u may say doesnt apply to every black woman, but u watch enough videos, post, and radio and something u say will. I want to thank you as well for simply opening my eyes.

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Schan Willis Ericka Jeffersoncan you please help shed some honest light from a former weave wearers perspective? Are the brothas you know of attracted to women who wear weave? And since you think differently now. I wold honestly like to know, what goes through the mindset? For me it would be like, why would i sew the hair of another race of women to my scalp, when the world knows it’s not your own? Do women think that way at all? I would really like to know the mindset. Thanks

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Ericka Jefferson Schan Willis Well im a hair stylist so my mindset came from a perspective of making money, by wearing what is attractive to alot of potential clients. My mother is mixed, always had beautiful naturally thick long hair, therefore I was always able to grow long hair, wearing weave can be protective to wearing the natural hair and making it susceptible to breakage from flat ironing and other styling techniques, and also be used to add fullness to already long hair so on my end I will say people couldnt just tell that the hair wasnt mine. Alot of women wearing weave arent just blatantly obvious that they are wearing it, i know alot of people feel black women cant have long hair but alot do and can, depending on the texture of weave its not always obvious…But then there are that majority that wear it and u can spot it from across the room and it looks horrible LOL… It looks like youre trying to be something youre not. These people are delusional. Im not a complete weave hater, I think the problem lies when one feels unattractive without wearing weave, alot of black women will not leave the house unless their hair is adorned with weave, alot of black woman knowingly wear weave that it isnt done professionally and is damaging their natural hair and they dont even care because they feel oh I’ll just cover it up with a hair hat. I think as far as men their is a LARGE group that dont care either way, their is a smaller group that prefer and appreciate a sister who is confident embracing the strands God gave her, and then the other small group is made up of shallow dudes who are seriously attractive to the stereotypical brainwashed Americanized classification of what beauty is Weave flowing down a black womans back. I think alot of black women honestly wear it because they seem to turn black mens head wearing it. I think thats one subject thats not touched on!!! Cause im here to break the truth.., i do not turn as many heads as when I wore weave! I dont care but its just the truth!

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Schan Willis Thank you for that Ericka Jefferson. That was well said.

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So guys, after reading that little exchange, tell me how you feel about what she said and does that change anyones mind about the things I say and do? Oddly enough, you guys do realize that 65 percent of my audience is black women right? So for anyone trying to claim I want black women dead and that I hate dark skinned women, maybe they can explain why I am supported by so many while they are supported by so few?

If a person who makes money doing hair can openly admit that I have a point, then why would people who claim men shouldnt care about hair not drop the act and say yeah, dude got a point? I mean if they really cared about black women as they say they do!